Episode 177

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3rd Sep 2026

Energetic Hygiene

Could some of the stress, emotional heaviness, or exhaustion you’re carrying actually belong to someone else?

Did you walk away from an interaction with someone and felt like they handed you an emotional backpack, and forgot to take it back? If so, it's time to check your energetic hygiene!

In today's episode of The Constance Messmer Podcast, we're talking about your energetic hygiene: how to recognize what is yours, release what isn’t, clear your energy field, and return to your own centered presence. You may be the listener, peacekeeper, healer, psychic vacuum cleaner, or person everyone calls when life falls apart. They walk away lighter…and suddenly you feel exhausted, anxious, irritable, or heavy.

That is your cue to pause and ask: Is this mine? Where did it come from? What am I supposed to do about it?

💫WHAT WE’LL EXPLORE:

💠Signs that you need to check your energetic hygiene

💠How other people’s thoughts and emotions can affect your energy

💠Why empaths sometimes leave conversations feeling heavy or “slimed”

💠The importance of knowing your emotional and energetic limits

💠How to uncover the story or lesson behind an energetic imbalance

💠Why caring for your energy is an act of self-respect and self-love

You can care deeply without carrying everything. Interact with your world, offer love where you can, and then come back to yourself.

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🔖 Chapters:

(0:00) Is This Energy Really Yours?

(0:41) Signs You Need Energetic Hygiene

(2:04) How Other People Affect Your Mind and Energy

(8:41) Grief, Empathy, and Emotional Heaviness

(12:38) Know Your Limits and Stop Carrying Everything

(16:34) Your Aura and Energy Field

(20:36) Return to Center With Energetic Hygiene

(21:44) ABC: Awareness, Breath, Care

(23:36) Find the Source and Release What Isn’t Yours

(26:07) The Story, Lesson, and Thread of Truth

(31:11) Crystals, Smudging, Angels, and Affirmations

(35:04) Collect, Clear, and Ground

(39:37) Stop Absorbing Other People’s Energy

(44:24) Recognize and Release

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Constance Messmer

Constance Messmer is a transformational speaker, author, medium, channel, energy healer, and master teacher of psychic development with over 30 years of professional experience. She is the creator of the 11 Soul Senses and author of Soul Yoga, introducing her dynamic 12-chakra system for expanded awareness and healing. Through her popular YouTube channel and The Constance Messmer Podcast, she has helped 170,000+ world-wide unlock and trust their intuitive abilities. Known for turning the unseen into something practical and powerful, Constance doesn't just inspire—she shares how to access, interpret, and use your intuition with clarity, confidence, and real-world impact.